Positive Mental Image
Do not think of a pink elephant!
Remember that the brain turns
each and every word into a picture. So, whatever we say creates a
picture in our students mind. We are responsible for that picture.
The brain is a powerful and
curious instrument. The brain can see an image and then it will work
subconsciously to make that image into a reality. This is
great...most of the time
However, when we use the wrong
words, we create an image of something that we actually would prefer
did not become a reality.
For example, when we tell a
student, "Do not talk.", we actually create the mental image of them
talking. So, guess what they do?
That's right...they start
talking. The result is a classroom that is difficult to manage.
So, what's a better way to say,
"Do not talk."?
How about, "Be silent". That
creates a clear mental image of being quiet...and that's what we
wanted. Take control of the classroom by creating "Positive
Mental Images" that are congruent to the behaviors that you
would like to see.
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